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Let me remind
you that we don’t need anybody’s approval to be happy in life. EVER! Let you
validate and accept your own version of happiness. You choose your life! Don’t
let anyone else decide for you. We are no victims to life. No prisoners. But we
do become victims and prisoners to the people we choose to coexist with. We
tend to become content, passive and blind within our relationships. Whether it
be a family member, business partner, friend or a lover. Out of comfort and
possibly fear of the unknown. The unknown will leave you stuck in a bad
situation. Choosing comfort over your own happiness.
Never forget that fate loves the fearless.
Today’s wisdom was yesterday’s pain. Tomorrows happiness is today’s bravery.
Never be fearful of letting go, for sometimes holding on can damage you deeper.
Those scars run deep.
There’s a huge difference between giving up and letting go. Giving up means you
are selling yourself short. It means allowing fear to limit your opportunities
and keep you cemented in place. Stuck. Letting go means freeing yourself from
something that is no longer beneficial to your personal growth. It means removing
toxic people and toxic mindsets from your life so that you can make room for
relationships and ideas that are conducive to your happiness and ever evolving
personal expansion. Giving up is self-defeat. Letting go is self-love.
Letting go means putting yourself first instead of holding on to that negative
space you don’t deserve. No body deserves. Removing toxic people from your life
is only allowing room for a positive flow to elevate your mind, body and soul.
Not everyone who started with you will finish with you. Be ok with that. “God
Helps Those Who Help Themselves.” ??
